Monday, August 4, 2014

Fighting Chance blog 19

Brothers In Arms
Adversity can either tear you apart or bring you closer together, in the case of the Kemp brothers Nash, 10 and Tate, 8 it brought them closer.
Nash Kemp is your average tween, but when life confronted him with a brother who has Cerebral Palsy (CP), he couldn’t be more proud and their strong brotherly bond is enviable.
Nash has openly said he would trade places with his brother if he could, but in hindsight it couldn’t have worked out in a better way. The hand that fate dealt them is in fact the one which allows them to play to their individual strengths. Nash has his compassion, and Tate his strength of will, each is a hero in the other’s eyes and their love for one another is obvious.
Nash is quite involved in Tate’s life, he reads Tate a bedtime story every night as well as helping him out when their mum is at the shops and their dad is at work; wherever Tate goes, Nash goes.
Despite his CP Tate continued to dream big, with big brother Nash by his side, he sought therapy through the Melbourne Cerebral Palsy Centre then went on to train for, and run the Melbourne marathon. The gates were shut when he finished the first time, but the second time he ended up completing it 2 hours faster. This was all thanks to Tate’s continuing training; running the streets of Melbourne while Nash rode beside him, encouraging him along the way.
When Sue and John Kemp were told that their newborn son, Tate, was shown to have brain damage on the MRI scan, they endured every parent’s worst heartache. Worse still was having to wait 2 years to find out exactly what they were dealing with.
Little did they know just how much of a hero their son would become, defying all the odds to achieve so much in just 8 short years. The marathon is just the start; Tate can also water-ski standing up, attends a public school and tops his class at maths.
Sue tries to not look too far ahead, taking life one month at a time because they don’t know what the future will bring for Tate, but for now she can’t help but sit back and admire the unbreakable bond her sons share together. Despite having the usual parental concerns, she never ceases to make sure Tate knows how much the whole family believes in him, as well as how proud they are of him, and I have to admire Sue’s bravery.
When almost 5 year-old Tate asked her the question that would break any mother’s heart: “Am I still going to have CP when I’m 5?” she replied “Yes, you’ll have it your whole life but I’ll always be here to support you, no matter what it takes.”
One thing’s for sure, no matter where life takes Tate next, Nash will be right by his side, urging him on, saying: “He’s more of a superhero than I’ll ever be.”

I would encourage you to watch this clip below https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q7X-_1iPPTQ

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